Cocktail Hour
The Red Room · First Floor
Doors open at five. Find the Red Room, find a drink, find someone you haven't seen in years.
Together with their families
One evening, five acts
Everything happens under one roof — no shuttles, no scramble. Here's how the evening moves.
The Red Room · First Floor
Doors open at five. Find the Red Room, find a drink, find someone you haven't seen in years.
Main Dining Room · Second Floor
Seated dinner upstairs, under the chandeliers. You pick your entrée when you RSVP — we're holding you to it.
Main Dining Room
Short speeches. We promise. Then the floor opens and it does not close.
Second wind, delivered on trays
This is the part people are still talking about in March. Lift the lid if you want to know.
A bar. Nearby. Soon.
For anyone who isn't done. Tick the box on your RSVP and we'll send you the address.
The Red Room, five o'clock
Two signature drinks — one each, and they tell you everything you need to know about us. Full bar for everyone else.
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The Venue
A private club since 1889, with the marble, oak, and chandeliers to prove it. Park in the club's own lot, start with cocktails in the Red Room on the first floor, then head upstairs to the Main Dining Room. Follow the gold — and the noise.
Address
Toledo, OH 43604
Parking
The Toledo Club has its own parking. Pull in, leave the car, don't think about it again.
Non-negotiable, lovingly
Tuxedos, dinner jackets, dark suits. Floor-length or elegant cocktail. It's January in Ohio — bring the good coat. There's a coat check.
Do
Black tie, dark suits, gowns, velvet, sequins, a truly excellent shoe. The Toledo Club has never once been underdressed. Neither should you.
Maybe don't
Both grooms are in dark suits, so the field is wide open — but leave head-to-toe white to the tablecloths.
Encouraged
You're absolutely allowed to match the wedding. In fact, please do. There will be photographs.
The Toledo Club's own house rule, which we're passing along word for word: proper business attire — collared shirt, pressed pants — is required inside the banquet rooms. No shorts, T-shirts, athletic apparel, ball caps, or denim are permitted in event rooms of The Toledo Club.
Stay downtown, cab home
All of these are a short ride from the club. Book early — and mention the wedding if a block is listed.
Room block · Recommended
444 N Summit St. The grand one — rooftop bar, big rooms, and where most of the out-of-towners will land.
Reliable
101 N Summit St. Clean, modern, river views. The zero-surprises option.
Bring the family
101 N Summit St. Suites with kitchens, same building as the Hilton Garden Inn. Good for a weekend, not just a night.
Bring the group
Airbnbs and lofts in the Warehouse District if you're coming as a crew and want a kitchen and a couch.
Getting around
The club has its own private parking lot. If you'd rather not drive home, Uber and Lyft run well downtown all night.
Flying in
Detroit Metro (DTW) is about an hour away and has everything. It's the one to book.
The reason you're here
Short version: we met, we stayed. Come drink to it.





Prove you know us
Six questions. The winner gets bragging rights and a seat at dinner. So does the loser, but still.
Final score
0/6
Midnight, somewhere close
We're locking in a bar within stumbling distance of the club. Tick the after-party box on your RSVP and the address lands in your inbox before the wedding. If you'd rather be asleep, we understand, and we're judging you gently.
By December 1, 2026
You're already through the door. Just tell us who's coming.
Your invitation
You have reserved
Received
Ask before you text us
Five o'clock. Dinner is seated at six and the doors close when service starts — if you're running late, aim to be in your chair by 5:50.
All of it. Cocktails in the Red Room on the first floor, dinner and dancing in the Main Dining Room upstairs. You won't need your coat until you leave.
Your code knows exactly how many seats are yours — it'll show them when you unlock the RSVP. If we got it wrong, say so in the notes and we'll fix it.
Named guests only, and every name is listed on your RSVP. It's a late night in a private club, so most families are treating this as a night off.
The Toledo Club has private parking on site. Pull in and leave it there. If you'd rather not drive home afterward, Uber and Lyft run downtown all night.
Honestly, we just want you there. That's the whole ask. If you insist on more, a link is coming here soon.
It's Toledo in January. Assume cold, possibly snow, definitely a coat. Coat check is right inside the door.
There is. It's printed on your invitation. Type it anywhere on this page — or into the RSVP box — and the house band shows up.